Lady Mercedes, how would you describe yourself?
I see myself as a self-confident, competent woman with born leadership skills. My dominance is part of my personality, my way of speaking, of thinking, of watching. There is nothing I hate more than fake dominant behavior.
How did you realize that you were dominant?
It started with bizarre fashion – black leather, to be specific. It gave me a certain aura, my skin was more sensitive. I moved in a different way, I just felt dominant. At about that time I had my first sadomasochistic relationship with a slave. It was as if I entered a new world and I wanted more. I wanted to make my passion my job. So I started working in a studio in Berlin where I learned everything I needed to know. The fact that I’m a trained nurse helped a lot on the medical side. Of course you need more – things you can’t learn, like personality, warmth, charm, intelligence, creativity, and imagination.
What does dominance mean to you?
Dominance has so many aspects…
To lead a human being, to control and to train him – or even transform him. Sometimes you just have to have the strength to play with your opposite, to let him slide into another world – just for a short time. Dominance combined with psychological knowledge doesn´t necessarily hurt. It is a subtil way to get ownership over a person. When you have high aims – as I have – you can do good in this position. Dominance means being the one who is more powerful, to hold a person, not to let him down, to catch him after the session and lead him back to normal. There is more than one way to do that, but it only works if there is an exchange. I only can reach a person who is willing to be reached and who allows me to approach him for a while. I will never possess someone with my dominance. I know where I stand and that is enough.
Do you still respect men, or rather: Do you still like men?
You ask this because I humiliate men and want to see them in embarrassing situations? Well, I like and respect men – If I didn’t I would be in the wrong job.
It is so unbelievable fascinating to meet in the world of a session. Beautiful chasms of terror open … I experience such unique sessions with some of my guests, travel with them through the darkest parts of their imagination and soul. They are small and ugly, maybe an animal, whining in pain, maybe crying their eyes out. Or I see them in the most embarrassing situations: Exposed on a gynecological chair, while I probe their orifices, for example. That is when my fascination with a person starts. When somebody bares his soul to me, he deserves my greatest respect. And afterwards, you sit down with a self-confident, interesting person and share a cup of coffee and talk about everyday things.
Which guests do you like best?
I have a weakness for the classic gentleman. I expect politeness and punctuality and prefer guests who already have a wide range of experiences. I like to make appointments with my guests because it is a good feeling to go into a session well prepared. All in all I have to say that it is important for me to get to know the other person and establish some sort of a relationship. That is why I especially like being together with guests with whom I have established trust. I am one of those who remembers the name of the guests and if there was praise or complaints.
My dominance has many different forms, and if somebody thinks he knows me, that can turn out to be a mistake very fast. And because part of me is very spiritual, it is important to have the right chemistry. I include elements of physical training, breathing exercises, and meditation in my sessions. I hate brutal and senseless punishments. My sadism is subtile and mean – not rough and common. I like the soft notes and watch the body language of my delinquents very carefully. In the end, I am both: the saint and the evil, the merciless one…
What don’t you like?
- When somebody doesn’t get involved.
- Disrespectful, impolite behavior.
- When appointments are not kept or not canceled in time.
- Sessions that fail because I can’t find a way to connect with my opposite.
- Men who say nasty things about other domina’s (a gentleman never tells).
- When men can’t seem to take a shower (our bathroom is flooded all the time, just what is the problem?).
- Guests who eat garlic before a session or come to their mistress without having had a shower (that starts things off bad right away).
- Questioning the session: Is everything clean here? Or, after a golden shower: Are you really healthy? Men and their urges…
Guests without a sense of humor!